By Colleen LaMay

When the economy hit hard times, so did a lot of Treasure Valley families, a Boise physician says.

“It definitely is stressing people out, if it is measured by increased volume in our business,” said Dr. Thomas Young, director of operations at the Warm Springs Counseling Center, which focuses on children and families.

Losing a job, taking a substantial pay cut or losing a home to foreclosure all tend to magnify some families’ everyday problems.

Even if your family is prospering, your kids likely have friends whose families are losing their homes or jobs, or they may notice that kids they used to go to school with are missing this year because their families moved, chasing down jobs elsewhere.

Here are some tips from Young for kids and grownups alike.

Children

•  The  very best thing you can do for your children is to assure them their family is a safe place, regardless of storms raging outside. Kids may think the worst, like living in a car under the bridge, so it is important to make sure they know you will keep them safe.

•  Older teens are more likely to be knocked off base when there isn’t enough money for material things. Try to raise kids who can see through peer pressure about having the “right” lifestyle and clothing.

Parents

The grownups have an advantage because they can see the bigger picture more easily. Yes, times are tough, but they’ve been tough before and are likely to be tough again.